24 Nov White lies
A white lie is a lie that is told in order to be polite or to stop someone from being upset by the truth. So this is what we tend to tell to ourselves. White lies. We don’t want to get hurt, or it hurts too much to just say it out loud. We tend not wanting to feel pain. Of course, it’s hard. If you look in the mirror and you think you are not enough, well you’ll act like you are not unconsciously and you will eventually believe it. That ’s why our inner conversation have to be very carefully taken under consideration. By telling to ourselves white lies we are just keeping the mind in peace. But what we are actually doing is not accepting and not giving credit to our feelings. We are just taking a step back to recognize and go thought the experience as we are supposed to do.
The monkey mind of ours, just want to know all the details. what, why and how it happened. it need a logical explanation.
But maybe we do not really understanding what’s going on and prefer not to deal with it. Emotions are not to be logically and fully analyzed and compartmented. They are there to be felt. And you can prolong a situation as long as you want with a white lie. Cause after a while, it becomes real, it becomes realty. Our mind is not able to discern reality from illusion. So now that you got your mind and yourself tricked, you think you have solved a situation by not reconciling with it. It might be truth. Or it might be not. Only time will tell. Usually it’s just lining there in between the surface of your consciousness. And if there is a memory reckoning, or some kind of trauma, it will eventually bring it up at some point. And I guarantee, it will hit you hard like a cold shower in fucking winter time. UUUUHHHHHH brrrrrrrrrr . That’s when you realize you had have shelved so carefully all your emotions in that little box together with the white lie you have told yourself. No worries, if it does comes up, it’s because they’re ain’t no more white lies and it’s time for you to face the reality. You are ready!
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